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Just as trapped

I saw a short video a few days ago of actors in the street portraying a loud argument as a couple.  First, the man pushing, shoving and shouting at a woman, and then the reverse. In the first portrayal, many passers-by asserted support for the woman. In the second – no passers-by came to support the man. For a 60 second video – this exposed and challenged previously subconscious assumptions to a disproportionate degree.

If a woman is screaming, demeaning, shoving or slapping, shouting and berating a man – why would I assume he’s not just as trapped as a woman in the reverse situation?

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Site changes

So I’ve had a little tidy up and among other things have changed the main banner, some site headings and added some new sections.

Don’t-cha love that teeny shell? Two sets of craftsmans fingerprints in one image!

Primarily though, the thing I’d like most to bring your attention to is the “Highly Recommended” tab under “Heartlife” above. It’s a little bit backwards to have a sub heading funtioning before a main heading – but hey. Backwards it is.

The Highly Recommended page is where I’ll post the best of the best that I’ve come across in some difficult life areas. These are the areas people most send private messages about.

As I said yesterday – I wish you didn’t need most of what’s here – but in case you ever do – it’s there. Abuse; Boundaries; Children and Porn; Freedom; Forgiveness; Love; Marriage; Narcissism; Repentance; Solo parenting Issues.

Have a look around and if you see anything that neets tweaking please let me know!

Stay tuned on the Heartlife thing… more news to come in time!