After 25 years I finally asked…


I honestly feel as though I need to write to every single person I’ve ever had a conversation with on the topic of parenting and ask them to please please grapple with the question it took me 25 years (+) to ask, and to watch the 26 minute message that opened up the answer which is linked at the end of this post.

So this letter is my start point for that 🙂

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My naked heart

I have been waiting to post this a long long time. Longer than a year. Longer than a decade. I wrote it nearly a year ago in readiness so there’s a little P.S. at the end. Much has unfolded and the time is right at last. It is for anyone who wasn’t already aware, has felt surprised, or is simply interested in reading some of my own backstory regarding our Cal being at Shalom House. I know that I know that I KNOW other’s hearts are breaking as mine was for so long – I pray with all my heart that you’ll find encouragement and hope in this rather long post – long even by my standards 🙂

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Echos…

For to which of His children did God ever say:

1  “You’re driving me nuts”
2  “I’m going to leave you behind”
3  “What do you WANT?!?!”
4  “Shut up”
5  “I cannot believe you just did that”
6  “Stop asking so many questions”
7  “What’s wrong with you”
8  “Leave me alone”
9  “I can’t believe I have to _____”
10  “Not again”

Frustrations 1:1-10


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