Real life valentines

My mum and dad are my life heroes for a great many reasons and marriage I think, pretty much tops the list. They have been my measure in so many ways. As far as marriage goes, if I can’t imagine them being something, saying something or doing something, it simply doesn’t belong. I have rarely seen the same levels of respect and gentleness and regard for the good of the other. They treat each other like valentines every day.


(This has been a VSP – very short post 🙂 )

Mysteries and misunderstandings

Mysteries and mysterious misunderstandings. I do not like them much. At all. Except when they are solved. And they aren’t always.

In a household of 9 we’ve had 36 pairs of relationship in these walls. That’s a lot of interaction and a lot of scope for mysteries and misunderstandings.

For a while we had 10 living here. That makes 45 pairs of relationships. Now we are 7 at home but 2 family partners and 2 grand babies makes the current count of 13 family – 78 pairs of relationships!!!

Add in friends, school, teachers, extended family, etc etc and the extended scope for mysteries multiplies beyond measure!

Yesterday we had 3 mysterious misunderstandings (that I know of). This morning, two and a half of them are solved.

Not too bad in the grand scheme of things!