I often have said and heard other say how much they *hate* conflict and I never once ever have heard anyone say they like it.
Why do we hate it so?
Is it not getting our own way?
Is it being thought lesser of?
Is it having to defend what shouldn’t need defending?
Is it an underlying suspicion of being wrong then masked with belligerence through fear of being caught out?
Why else can you see that makes it so hard? And does ANYone actually enjoy it?